Lutefisk and Haggis




On the dock in Green Turtle Cay in the Abacos, I met Piegi, from New England.  I called her Peggy; When introduced,  I did not hear an alternative pronunciation, I detected no accent, so I went with "Peggy', the spelling of her name be damned.   Piegi and husband  on a big trawler thing, and their version of  this boating thing  so interestingly  different from ours while in many ways the same. Making their way to these exotic corners through thought and persistence and discipline, but they unfettered with  sailboat issues.


My introduction to Piegi was  on an adjacent folding chair, during an impromptu evening  dock social gathering.  Piegi and I  chatted, other crews mingling with others.  Then from  down the dock, Piegi and I  overhear her husband: " We're  going to sail it around the world". Piegi snickers. " Yes, we are" she says not to me but audibly.  "As soon as  Home  Goods has a Sale".   Which which of course is never, because  that's the whole point of the store.  So her wit escapes everyone else in the vicinity but lands with firmly with me  and Piegi and I start laughing, uproariously; high level irony being my favorite form of humor.   I do not know this woman at all, and she and I instantly connect. 


This is how it happens in the sailing world. Everywhere you land, you gain new bonds. Lives touch yours in a unique way; we are all conquering small worlds and that makes for camaraderie.


A couple weeks later,  Joe and I  are still puttering around the Abacos, sporadically   landing in the vicinity of  Piegi and her husband,  and sharing  outings.   The four of us all seemed to  get along.  The vote was taken to  have a farewell  restaurant meal, as soon  we we would  all be pulling up anchors and heading different ways, who knows when to cross courses again.


Via text,  Piegi and I concluded she would cook the parting meal. She invited us to  their boat.   I typed back  "Will bring salad. But  to avoid any hurt feelings, Joe and I will not eat haggis, nor, in my opinion,  should any human being".  She  concurred, adding   "I agree. I hope however that you like lutefisk".